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hathhost 71 M
4  questions
Deleting email messages - 9/21/2012

During the last couple of days I have tried to delete email messages in outpersonals.com. I have been unable to do so and have got the message "error on page" at the lower left hand corner.

3 response(s), 5 votes
BILLYJACK069 65 M
1  question
My fist time - 9/17/2012

Im new at this. I have never had a guy, but when I talk on here I really want one. I have talk on here to a few guys, but it seems like when the time comes to meet somplace for coffee, orsomthing, thay always say that somthing cam up. It makes me think, will I ever get layed for the first time

8 response(s), 12 votes
guzzguzz 46 M
3  questions
why there are many guy love to be fuck. - 9/15/2012

i met lot guys on the net mostly we had a nice chat. almost topic end up about sex. i love having sex with fresh boy gay. however i've also been fuck with my best friend once it love it but that enough for me i rather be the fucker than other. Do you know why s/o love to be fuck. anyway if you love to be fuck drop me line

7 response(s), 7 votes
Terry2202 58 M
1  question
Would you let someone watch you masturbate? - 9/3/2012

If another gay man wanted to watch you masturbate - would you let him? I mean a solo act, where you j/o while he just watches...I would love to watch a guy(s) jack-off, but can't imagine anyone would be willing to do it for my viewing pleasure only...Your honest answers are appreciated...Thanks! Terry

46 response(s), 62 votes
fistguy69 43 M
1  question
Ass play - 8/24/2012

What are some of the toys you use or ones that you can make yourself.

7 response(s), 8 votes
lankyboy2 46 M
13  questions
Best Gay Destinations! - 8/23/2012

I travelled to Amsterdam and I must vote it as the most gay friendly place on earth. Just at the Airport, on my landing, I had a man eyeing me and after sometime he ushered me to a cafe and smothered me with a kiss in the gents. In the City itself I found very friendly gays. What do others think? Any other heavenly destinations?

5 response(s), 3 votes
lankyboy2 46 M
13  questions
which side should the dick face in the pants - 8/17/2012

some of my mates find it strange that when in pants my dik settles on the right. theirs' settle on the left. is this strange? is it genetic or is it just conditioned by use? Which side does your jean bulge? lankyboy2 is dying for an answer.

33 response(s), 31 votes
gunner54h 73 M
5  questions
New look - 8/16/2012

What is your opinion on the new look OutP has. I'm not sure yet, I think they are trying way too much in so short of a page.

12 response(s), 17 votes
sweetbillstoy 38 M
1  question
i beleive im thekinkiest nastiest sickest little cocksucker here - 8/10/2012

i invented a but plug with a doggie tail inserted in the bearer has a doggie tail i invented a srap on dick with a swell ball on the pube end which swells causing the two to be hung up and last but not least a mouth peice wich inserts into the mouth keeping it wide open on the outside a toilet seat mking you a human urinal fireaway challengers

4 response(s), 18 votes
bidonald2 68 M
2  questions
Gay, but not out - 8/8/2012

When I was young, and newly married, I found that the only way I could cum was to pretend that I was fucking a man's ass. I though this was the fault of my wife, however, as I matured and found other women I had the same problem. I finally had a relationship with a man and found it to be absolutly wonderful, I knew then I was gay. My lover finally decided to come out, and it destroyed his life. ...

1 response(s), 18 votes
Buck7583 68 M
25  questions
Does One Always Have to Have Sex To Feel Complete? - 7/24/2012

Howdy Everyone: <br> I thought I would pose these questions because I seam to hear so much discussion about it. <br> Questions; <br> Does having sex mean your satisfied in a relationship? <br> Does a relationship always have to include sex to be complete? <br> Can a relationship exist between two people without having sex? <br> Does not ...

11 response(s), 16 votes
jesse6977 65 M
6  questions
ED meds - 7/23/2012

Have any of you taken ED medications such as Viagra or Levitra and if so what has your experience been ? I have been thinking about trying it but have heard some stories about bad side effects.

1 response(s), 7 votes
longlasting731 47 M
1  question
IS BLACK BETTER????? - 7/21/2012

I am a white male who is totally obsessed with black cock, so much so that I prefer it over anything else. Do you think black cock is better and if you are a black male that likes white ass and white cock check me out........

4 response(s), 3 votes
justforhotsex2 64 M
1  question
Straight or not? - 7/7/2012

I have a friend who claims to be straight but I just wonder? Let me try and sum it up briefly. We have know each other for a few years and I also knew his former girlfriend. He had ownered a bar near by my home and I use to visit there. One night they got drunk and he and another male friend and his wife and myself played strip poker well I hoped he would loose he did my dream came true I got to ...

4 response(s), 19 votes
Squaredealer 58 M
1  question
What are your feelings about facial hair? - 7/2/2012

I haven't seen this one posted yet, although there's been one about hairy men--

How does everybody feel about facial hair on men? Personally, I've grown beards, moustaches, and goatees at times--it only takes me a few days--but prefer going clean shaven and I tend to prefer clean shaven men (and women

What about it, folks, does facial hair do something for you, or not?

11 response(s), 16 votes
hotbuck8 66 M
5  questions
Best place to buy videos and toys in Charleston - 6/30/2012

Can anyone tell me where the best adult video and novelty stores are in the Charleston area? I have tried here on this OP site and another site checking out the local Adult Directory and it doesn't show anything. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you

0 response(s), 8 votes
backagain80 47 M
3  questions
shave or wax or? - 6/18/2012

so i love to be smooth. I have been shaving my cock and balls and ass and everything in between. I love the way it feels when i am freshly shaven. but I think it maybe time to wax. I want to know what you all think. Wax vers shave. Or if there are other ideas that would be good too. nothing feels better to me then when i am all smooth and lubed up with my lover sliding in and out of my boipussy. ...

6 response(s), 15 votes
oralvirgin4cock 56 M
2  questions
Boys Town - 6/15/2012

Would love to venture over to Boy's Town in Chicago and have some fun....any suggestions for older guys?

1 response(s), 13 votes
slut 39 T
1  question
Feminine body - 6/14/2012

I have a slight flabby body and wants to know if there's any websites that guides a person to get a feminine body shape and yet in good physical, something like how a fit and toned girl.

7 response(s), 11 votes
backagain80 47 M
3  questions
enima - 5/26/2012

i have been giving myself enimas with the garden hose lately, it gets me sooo hard love to fill my ass with water and then jerk off as i push it out. anybody else enjoy this?

4 response(s), 13 votes
richclearspring 49 M
1  question
Describe the Perfect Cock 4U - 5/24/2012

Cocks cum in all different shapes and sizes and no 2 are alike... So what's your dream dick look like?

32 response(s), 7 votes
deciple 77 M
3  questions
Can't perform in bed? What is wrong with arranging sex with others for your partner? - 5/24/2012

Because of a back injury, I cannot perform sex with my partner. Rather than let his suffer, I am trying to arrange sex with other men for him. He works, and I stay at home, and have more time to put feelers our in OutPersonals. We are both over 65, but not dead yet. Since I cannot be active in sex, I enjoy watching him having fun with others. I am not the only voyer in the world, so don't ...

2 response(s), 8 votes
deciple 77 M
3  questions
How does one go about finding a sub for a dom? - 5/22/2012

I have tried gay papers, etc, and gay web sites. I guess I just do not know who to word the ad. Anybody help?

5 response(s), 6 votes
deciple 77 M
3  questions
Why do guys ask for sex on this site, and then refuse it when offered? - 5/22/2012

Most of the men who are on this site ask for a man or male couple to have sex with. When I offer to accomidate them, they refuse, whining that "it is too far (less that 20 miles), too old (but we are not dead, or ugly), feel uncomfortable coming over (would you rather meet at a public park, and get busted?), " and so on. If you do not want sex, do not ask for it. If it is offeredd that ...

3 response(s), 10 votes
newbe6 65 M
3  questions
  - 5/19/2012

! close friend came to me with this promblem, what should i do! was on a date , set up by a friend and he and his wife drug me then me don't know if their safe dd/free

3 response(s), 16 votes
smoothshavin2 51 M
2  questions
Is this a normal fantacy? - 5/15/2012

Just like to know about what others thought of my fantasy. I can get over this craving of making a porn movie being tied down and being trained by ten guys bar back. Be shot so full of cum i can taste it in my mouth.

I just need to fulfill this fantasy.

7 response(s), 19 votes
hardindc 48 M
1  question
Help! - 5/14/2012

I am 30 years old. I have been only into girls my whole life. But one day I was playing around on the internet and I accidentally clicked on a gay web site. It REALLY turned me on. Since then, I have been very interested in having man to man sex. Any advice?

2 response(s), 0 votes
oralvirgin4cock 56 M
2  questions
How do I show I'm interested and remain subtle? - 5/11/2012

I work-out regularly at a local gym and this older fit stud caught my eye in the locker room about a month ago. He just struck me as someone who may appreciate some male bonding as I just get that inkling from him. I have noticed him since and have gotten some smiles but am not sure how to go about showing that I'm interested in putting my hands and mouth all over his body. When walking in the ...

8 response(s), 9 votes
acedog1951 65 M
1  question
hard to fine tops for older bimail - 5/3/2012

hi am 59 and a Bottom but it seems like the guys want Younger guys what about us older guys in wyoming

10 response(s), 31 votes
wedgie215 61 M
2  questions
Sensations - 4/29/2012

I have always indulged in safe anal sex. More and more guys want ot go bareback. Is there a different sensation while going at it bareback style?

6 response(s), 13 votes