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johnr1939 83 M
4  questions
Another dumb question - 8/29/2010

What does the word edging mean to stop a quick climax and also what is kegles. Probably real dumb but do not know what they mean. Thank you for any explainations

1 response(s), 10 votes
haldick212 75 M
18  questions
Anal pleasure - 8/28/2010

When did you first discover that it was pleasurable to put something in your anus? I remember as a young boy enjoying puting a finger or something in my ass. As a I tried a banana or a cucumber etc. The first time I used a long dildo the pleasure was fantastic and I couldn't get enough. I've talked to some men who find just getting your prostate checked repulsive and painful.

7 response(s), 21 votes
studdman44 57 M
16  questions
certain smells - 8/24/2010

Yes I was wondering if anyone else has had this to happen to them, I ate some onion last nite with my supper went took a shower after that I could smell a faint onion smell on my penis thought wat the heck so i got up this morning kept smelling it so I took a good shower and I still can smell onion a little bit when i piss its just weird, I just want to know if anything like this has happend to ...

5 response(s), 16 votes
acedog1951 65 M
1  question
hard to fine tops for older bimail - 8/18/2010

hi am 59 and a Bottom but it seems like the guys want Younger guys what about us older guys in wyoming

10 response(s), 31 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
a computer question - 8/17/2010

forgive me for asking yet another question about computers but here goes... i have been told that every time you look at a photo, porn or other that some place on the computer a tiny shot of that photo is stored. Is this true ? If this is true, can anyone please tell me where on my power mac these photos are kept and how I can get rid of them ? thanks sparky696969

7 response(s), 17 votes
haldick212 75 M
18  questions
More cum - 8/17/2010

Is there anything you can take to increase the amount of cum that you ejaculate? I read that porn stars take something to increase their amount of cum. I find with age the amount of my cum is less.

6 response(s), 15 votes
NVRyan 33 M
1  question
Cock ring - 8/14/2010

I never used a cock ring before but a friend thinks it would be hot if I did. I've heard stories though, like you could cause some damage to yourself if you use one. Also how do you get one of the solid rings not only on your dick, but around your balls as well? How does it improve the sex? Is a solid ring best or would a snap on kind be safer? Any advice from an expert? Thanks

5 response(s), 17 votes
johnr1939 83 M
4  questions
I guess I am just dumb - 8/12/2010

can some one tell me what nsa in a profile is supposed to mean

6 response(s), 12 votes
johnr1939 83 M
4  questions
Why do people not answer emails. - 8/5/2010

I have sent emails and people do not answer or answer and act like they want to meet and never hear from them again. Is it because of my age?

7 response(s), 22 votes
makeoutman2000 49 M
2  questions
Don't most guys read the profile before contacting someone? - 7/30/2010

I have noticed that I get alot of contacts from guys that don't match what I've said that I'm looking for, in my profile. I know that, as a standard member, I cannot look at profiles, unless I use some of my points. I can also email someone by using more points. I know points are hard to come by, so I hate wasting mine if I don't think I would be a good fit with someone. Wouldn't you look at a ...

11 response(s), 27 votes
haldick212 75 M
18  questions
swallowing experiences - 7/29/2010

There have been many discussions on the safety of swallowing cum. Most men say they love to swallow and do. Others say it is not safe. When I meet someone for the first time I tell myself not to swallow but I get carried away and most times do. Have any of you ever caught something from swallowing?

8 response(s), 23 votes
shery1980 43 M
1  question
how can i get a good gay? - 7/27/2010

hi, i am new here i donot know what to do to have a good gay in my area it is very difficult for along time i got pleasure from playing with my ass by inserting my fingers in my asshole but now i wanna to have a real sex with someone who could understand my body needs but i do not know how to get him? if there anybody interested in egypt catch me shoshoo1980 at yah.





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4 response(s), 20 votes
shaghappy56 65 M
1  question
Hopefully,somebody will know where i`m coming from? - 7/24/2010

Although it`s sometime since my first male on male contact, my first time threw me, although i quickly recovered. We both got into bed and that wasn`t a problem, but then, he leaned over to kiss me and that did throw me.Don`t ask me why, but kissing wasn`t something i was expecting. In the end, i thought, in for a penny, in for a pound and it was great. Did others experience this, or, is it just ...

13 response(s), 23 votes
haldick212 75 M
18  questions
What happened to all the cams? - 7/17/2010

Where are all the cams ? Yesterday 2 today only 7...Is eveyone leaving this site?

3 response(s), 13 votes
kissassme 64 M
32  questions
Don't you think to be queer is out of world thing, people do it for the sake of newness - 7/14/2010

I am perfectly alright with it. But I want to inject possibility of rethink on this, just for discussion sake!

6 response(s), 15 votes
kissassme 64 M
32  questions
when you become old, you tend to have little choice, whatever is available is fine, I am at loss! - 7/14/2010

I make this clear here. I am not good at expression though inception is clear. I want good fuck from anyone who is ready to take me seriously and not taking me for a ride. What do you say?

7 response(s), 19 votes
hathhost 71 M
4  questions
Norton Antivirus red alert - 7/3/2010

Since several days ago when I have logged into outpersonals.com, my Norton Antivirus program each time issued a red alert window stating that outpersonals was not a safe site. This is nothing to do with my computer having got tech support from Norton today. Are there members out there with Norton 2010 who get the same red alert? If so should not representations be made to outpersonals?

4 response(s), 18 votes
johnr1939 83 M
4  questions
Bi Bottom - 7/1/2010

I have been on op for a couple of years and my question is where are all the tops that would like to be with mature man?

10 response(s), 24 votes
Sor3 24 M
1  question
gay retail in scotland? - 7/1/2010

hey, does anyone know of any gay shops, hopefully in glasgow, i heard clone zone shut down? because i REALLY want more mens thongs, or does anyone know where else i could get them??

thanks for any help you can give

4 response(s), 16 votes
newbee74 83 M
1  question
anal sex - 6/30/2010

I am a newbee to all of this and would like some information regarding anal sex. I have never had a relationship with another man. The opportunity might be tomorrow so wanted to know if I should do an enema before I leave to go up there. What other preparations should I do. I could just picture not doing it and then what a mess. I also would like to learn from actually doing it, suck a ...

4 response(s), 20 votes
makeoutman2000 49 M
2  questions
Anal Orgasm - 6/30/2010

I have given myself an orgasm using a dildo before, but I have never had another partner make me cum from just fucking my ass. When I do it to myself, I find just the right way to stimulate my prostate then I bang away. My orgasm is different, but i still shoot loads of cum. I wish I could find a man who could this to me!!!

7 response(s), 27 votes
haldick212 75 M
18  questions
Erectile dysfunction - 6/28/2010

I have had some trouble maintaining erections at times . My doctor recommended I try Viagra. I have heard from some friends that that had side effects like headaches etc. Have any of you used products like Viagra and how did they work for you? Appreciate some feedback.

7 response(s), 16 votes
taino81151959 60 M
1  question
fractured penis - 6/27/2010

is it possible to fracture your penis? or does your penis curve on its own as you grow older?

10 response(s), 17 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
estim machine - 6/25/2010

can you cum more than once with an estim machine ? sparky

2 response(s), 7 votes
haldick212 75 M
18  questions
Do men want to emulate woman with anal sex? - 6/23/2010

I see many bottoms who refer to their anus as Pussy, Mancunt, Mangina etc. Are these guys trying to emulate woman sexually??

14 response(s), 27 votes
LIman11730 57 M
2  questions
m4m profiles - 6/22/2010

I see that alot of men put down perfer not to say when it comes to : 1.....marital status 2.....circumcised To me that mean they are married or attached. Why not just say it. As for being circumcised just put down the truth people will find out when they meet you anyway. As for me I don't care if you are cut or not but no I don't want to be with someone who is married.

11 response(s), 21 votes
D_era2000 36 M
1  question
Was This A Possible DL Encounter? - 6/21/2010

You may have to be familiar with black culture to understand some of the lingo here, but...I have a scenario, and I would like to know your honest, unbiased, unsarcastic (yea right) opinion. Do you think this guy was trying to see what was up, or just being friendly? I don't care either way. It's just a curiosity...

I had this incident a few months back, with a dude at my local ...

1 response(s), 8 votes
musclerider69 57 M
1  question
A bottom question - 6/19/2010

I recently hooked up with a new fuck bud after my old one moved to different state. We are both married so we can get together only about once a month. I'm a vers, he is mainly a bottom. The deal is, when I fuck his ass, he cums after just a few thrusts and I mean in seconds. We have been together about 4 times and it happens everytime. I'm average size, nothing to write home about. When I suck ...

8 response(s), 20 votes
farkinarkle 27 M
1  question
How to meet new people? - 6/18/2010

Ive lately found myself with a problem of not being able to meet new people, whether on here or in real life. I can't tell who likes guys or not, or even who likes me, and lately, I've been driving myself insane, trying to find someone. So how do I go about finding new people? What should I do on here to help me? I'm dying to be with someone (though around ny age), and I don't know what to do ...

0 response(s), 10 votes
youngy66 52 M
4  questions
No Bro. - 6/16/2010

I wanted to throw this one out there and see what comes back, apologies for the sombre content.I lost my older brother six weeks ago in a tragic accident(he was 45 and my only brother)he kept an eye on me since we were , right through to adult life(even vetting potential parters for his little bro)i feel lost without him.I went back to work this week which helped, but just find myself really ...

7 response(s), 24 votes