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Asseater5556 49 M
1  question
How to deep throat huge cocks with out gagging - 10/4/2020

And I need to learn to love cum!!!

19 response(s), 17 votes
lavielascif 53 T
3  questions
Before i going... - 10/4/2020

sleep i masturbate of many way and ejaculate. What you mean, it's good or bad?...

6 response(s), 3 votes
littleguy57 63 M
11  questions
Social distancesing - 9/22/2020

It's been a while since I've given a blowjob. Last week while taking a piss at a rest stop, where I have made some hook- ups, this nice old guy really wanted to give me a blowjob. I told him I would like that! and like to give him one too, but am afraid of Corona virus. So how should I pursue this?

10 response(s), 2 votes
littleguy57 63 M
11  questions
Where to go ? - 7/13/2020

I'm looking for bisexual saunas close to Morris County, New Jersey. Anyone know of any ? Thanks, littleguy57

2 response(s), 4 votes
Photojim07 50 M
1  question
Looking fro head in Fresno - 6/26/2020

Ever since craigslist personals got dropped I have not really been able to find anyone to give me head. I have tried a few of these sites but not wanting to spend money at this time this is probably a better site. AdultFriendFinder is so limited as a regular member, you get 3 IM messages a day. The females won't reply to you and you do not know if the guys are into guys. Gayxxxdate is totally confusing, it ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
ruwanting 62 M
2  questions
1st Timers - 6/26/2020

We all finally meet someone and make that transition from cybersex OP to actual skin to skin in real life. <br><br> What was it like your first time meeting someone from online. Were you scared, maybe nervous. Or were you hard as a rock and couldn’t wait to dive right in? <br><br> Was it public? Private, in a car, at a movie, or? <br><br> Please dont forget ...

28 response(s), 10 votes
advent43 67 M
11  questions
trouble posting a question? - 6/26/2020

I've twice attempted to post a question here and despite the fact that it was approved, for some reason it disappeared over night...twice, without explanation. Anyone have a similar experience? This is a copy of the approval; <br><br> Dear advent43, <br><br> Thank you for submitting your article to our Magazine at OutPersonals. It has been approved and is now visible ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
BuckeyeBtm 70 M
4  questions
Straight? - 2/15/2020

I have seen guys profiles on sites like this that say they are straight and versatile. If they are on these sites looking for sex wouldn't that make them Bi not straight? Also if they are versatile doesn't that mean they will bottom? So how can they be straight?

17 response(s), 11 votes
booth65 67 M
1  question
oral vs. anal - 2/12/2020

I enjoy Doing oral, however, every now and then, so seem to enjoy it.seemeone wants to fuck me. I don't like it and usually say, no! It usually hurts and I don't enjoy it. When I look at porn the guys seem to enjoy it. What am I doing wrong?

19 response(s), 11 votes
jjfsrvt77 57 M
2  questions
Getting Laid - 2/12/2020

If you go out and Hook up, Meet someone.... Have Sex, that means you got Laid. IF, You "Fuck" yourself with a Dildo.... Does that count as well? Abstract Thinking

26 response(s), 15 votes
advent43 67 M
11  questions
Bath houses still exist??? - 2/5/2020

I was recently chatting with a guy on here who like me can not host. So I suggested we meet for coffee regardless and that if we were compatible we could figure something out. I even suggested the local ABS, but to my surprise he indicated a male bath house not far from where he lives. I was surprised because I thought that in the wake of STD awareness, they'd pretty much all closed down. ...

14 response(s), 9 votes
BuckeyeBtm 70 M
4  questions
Bottom Question - 1/9/2020

Would like to ask the bottoms out there what they use to clean themselves out? Store bought? Water? Someone recently told me that they use a mild soapy solution. I had been told that this is not good for your system. Any feedback on this?

20 response(s), 14 votes
jjfsrvt77 57 M
2  questions
The New Average - 1/8/2020

So what is m/f conversation this afternoon. being a 7... I once thought I had a slight edge.. but now i'm worried I don't measure up.

17 response(s), 7 votes
DaButt69 48 M
2  questions
Group Sex - 12/21/2019

Has anyone had groupsex? If so, how was it?

15 response(s), 8 votes
advent43 67 M
11  questions
What's wrong with this picture??? - 11/17/2019

When ever I contact a guy I'm interested in I include my recent "G" photo, a short note of interest and dare I say...my actual first name! Yet despite the fact that I get flirts, hotlists and have standard contacts, it's rare that a guy emails me with something more that "hey" or "what's up" or "I'd like to sit on that". Even the few ...

14 response(s), 17 votes
advent43 67 M
11  questions
Monogamy, a dated concept? - 11/13/2019

Frustrated here as I've not had any luck finding a lover. I've written a concise profile and included my recent photos. I've been exceedingly careful, actually dormant from sexual contact for several years and was recently tested for HIV, which came as no surprise, was negative. <br><br> Despite the fact that I've stated my desire for a monogamous relationship with a ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
Ukbottom69 52 M
1  question
Best way to arrange a 3some? - 10/16/2019

Hi All, <br><br> Trying out this forum. Definitely easier meet people and test the water but for some time now, I've been very much fantasizing about a 3or 4some with Tops . I feel hungry and horny for 3some fun and would be keen to hear people's honest views how that's done! <br><br> I guess the easiest is to ask.. but often in 1:1 chats, I would get asked .. ...

9 response(s), 8 votes
stroking648 74 M
1  question
Sucking Cock - 9/14/2019

What is it about sucking cock, particularly for the first, time, that makes it so memorable. Does anyone ever forget their first time taking a man's load? And what makes it so enjoyable that we all want more?

21 response(s), 24 votes
lovestick6969 51 M
14  questions
Have you used Poppers? - 9/7/2019

Have you tried poppers to have sex? I haven't actually had sex on them, but I recently bought a bottle and when I had some alone time I got naked.. put on some porn with headphones and opened the bottle.. and OMG what a rush!!! I knew they where supposed to make you feel some things as I read up about them beforehand. Yes my face went quite warm, my heart raced a little.. but the thing I ...

12 response(s), 15 votes
Johnjr388 52 M
1  question
how do you keep it there? - 9/1/2019

Hello, i have been wearing women panties and thongs for year and cannot wear boxers anymore love the feeling of a thong or silk panties. been doing some cross dressing in the house for a while so far have not gone out. I was trying to get enough nerve to try it this year but i have one problem. How or where should i put my dick?? might just have to duck tape it to my ass. can anyone be any ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
LatinOtter85 38 M
1  question
Are you out? - 8/23/2019

The more I search this site, the more I'm finding profiles of men who are either bi-curious or cannot host. Which, really, just makes me wonder if those men are in relationships and on here secretively. There also seems to be a large list of men who cannot host. Which seems to be another red flag. <br><br> So, my question... Are you ? Or just curious and hoping nobody finds ?

1 response(s), 1 vote
lovestick6969 51 M
14  questions
Is this site broken?? - 8/22/2019

I'm wanting cock attention! But this site offers NONE! <br><br> <br><br> So glad I haven't renewed membership in ages.

16 response(s), 14 votes
Slurping67 52 M
1  question
oshkosh - 7/23/2019

hello all <br><br> I will be in Oshkosh may 3rd and was looking for place to go? bookstores with arcade or adult theater? <br><br> thanks

1 response(s), 2 votes
Sissypriscilla20 68 M
1  question
Lonely Sissy wants a gangbang - 7/20/2019

Where are all the older men who wants a in Mass?...

3 response(s), 6 votes
ghostgirlv333 64 T
18  questions
why dont you blog - 5/30/2019

not so much a question but a suggestion iif folks on here are interested in you then you call can connect thru your blogs just sayin

7 response(s), 16 votes
backdooropen1669 68 M
3  questions
what do you have to do? - 5/6/2019

How on earth does one find a group? So wish to be video'd live servicing a group yet no takers. Seriously what does one need to do? Let me know so want this.

2 response(s), 3 votes
backdooropen1669 68 M
3  questions
public sex - 5/3/2019

Would love to be tied to a guardrail and have a group of men use all my holes all night long while being blindfolded and filmed and placed on the internet. Anyone else's have such desires? Anyone capable of getting this my top fantasy fulfilled for me? Obviously let me lose my blindfold midway through I want all to see me used/

3 response(s), 10 votes
dickobsessed 71 M
1  question
position - 5/2/2019

When setting up my profile, when I get to the selection for position, all the choices are blank. Is this the same for everyone? orally vers/anally bottom, and would like for this to show up on my profile so other bottoms wouldn't waste their time contacting me.

3 response(s), 11 votes
backdooropen1669 68 M
3  questions
who likes to be tied and dominated - 4/30/2019

I wish too be tied and dominated by a group. Who's into group anyone like filming it as well?

5 response(s), 2 votes
ansandiego619 58 M
1  question
How do you meet mature men? - 4/21/2019

I'm in a great city that's brimming with great-looking, young, fit men, but how do you meet a man in his 50s these days?

5 response(s), 15 votes