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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Gayboys4u.
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jan4667 77 M
2  questions
A little bit of kink - 7/6/2014

How many 'bottoms' like to be spanked(from playful to real) before, during or after sex, either while roleplaying or just for the wantoness of it.

12 response(s), 5 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
Need some hepl please - 7/4/2014

My high school did not have the book, everything you need to know about your penis, can someone please tell me, just how far back should the skin be able to move on an uncircumcised penis ? i have looked and looked on the net and can not find an answer, what i do find is, some say just behind the "head" others say it should move all the way to the base, which is it ? i have a very short ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
Elwitmon 66 M
1  question
Length - 7/2/2014

When you are measuring the length of your cock, do you measure from tip to base or from tip to balls?

4 response(s), 3 votes
cool5050 71 M
5  questions
Why????? - 6/22/2014

If the wheel works, Why do you guys keep changing it??? For the amount we gold and V.I.P. members pay we sure done get what we pay for!! At least I feel this way..........

2 response(s), 7 votes
cool5050 71 M
5  questions
Why????? - 6/19/2014

If the wheel works, Why do you guys keep changing it??? For the amount we gold and V.I.P. members pay we sure done get what we pay for!! At least I feel this way..........

0 response(s), 2 votes
cool5050 71 M
5  questions
Why????? - 6/15/2014

If the wheel works, Why do you guys keep changing it??? For the amount we gold and V.I.P. members pay we sure done get what we pay for!! At least I feel this way..........

0 response(s), 2 votes
ghostgirlv333 64 T
18  questions
adult time travel - 6/4/2014

if you could go back in time what sex tips would you go back and give yourself

5 response(s), 6 votes
ghostgirlv333 64 T
18  questions
for the tops your legs open or closed - 5/29/2014

ok you got someone and your about to go doggie style and they get down and spread there knees out making you have to spread your legs out even wider to get down and go to town or you do readjust them so you can close your legs and get to it what do you do and why?

2 response(s), 6 votes
Samsung44 45 M
1  question
How do i practice correct hygiene if I want to participate in anal sex - 5/26/2014

I am sure that this question has been asked a million times or more but I have never been with a guy but at the rather mature age of 42 I am at last in a place in my life where I would like to experience sex with a man. I have had lots of fun times on my own playing with my ass but have never been able to fully master the cleaning routine.. can any one offer me any tips Please

3 response(s), 10 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
brother is also gay - 5/23/2014

I just discovered my brother is also gay, what is the best way to ask him to jack me off ?

7 response(s), 7 votes
sparky696969 63 M
81  questions
your advice please - 5/15/2014

I have a male friend who is 22, his dad died when he was 6 and has lived with his mother, all this time without a man in his life as a dad. he is learning disadvantaged and because of this he never went to grade school, Jr. high or high school and has never been around other boys his age. i found out the other day by accident that he knows nothing about sex and jacking off, should i tell him ? ...

5 response(s), 10 votes
freakblkbisexual 39 M
1  question
Never had anal sex. - 4/25/2014

I have been bi for years but a part of me is afraid to try anal sex. I hear it will hurt and i have even heard some guys say there ass was bleeding. I want to try it so bad. i keep thinking about having a dick in my ass as a guys rubs my nipples. Does anyone have any advice on this ????

8 response(s), 12 votes
donaldh 74 M
6  questions
How to get noticed - 1/28/2014

I have recently accepted the fact that I am gay, however I find it difficult to meet men who enjoy the same sexuality (maybe it's because I am a late bloomer). Is there any thing that I can wear to let other men of the same sexual leaning know that I am available?

1 response(s), 8 votes
XXX2B 48 M
1  question
Color of semen? - 1/24/2014

Has anyone had a color like redish/pink seman?

2 response(s), 2 votes
ladd2046 78 M
1  question
Longest member on OP - 1/17/2014

Just looked at my title and realized that it can be taken more than one way. While I would enjoy seeing pictures of the guys with the longest members on OP, what I'm curious about is who has been a member of OP the longest. Anyone know when OP was started?

4 response(s), 5 votes
robdessertrider 66 M
1  question
Gay Bathhouses - 1/8/2014

I have been to Gay bath houses in several cities, Denver, Colorado Springs, and Las Vegas. Have any of you been to these and did you have a good experience? I have from outright fucking amazing hookups, to absolutely no action whatever. Just curious if your having the same results.

7 response(s), 7 votes
Enculer 59 M
1  question
Fisting lube - 1/6/2014

Being a total bottom I love having my hole worked and stretched. I tried being fisted a few times many years ago but never managed to achieve it and gave up trying as I have small hips and wonder if my my pelvic bones get in the way.

I am very keen to try again and looking for advice on whether it is possible that my small hips do prevent me taking a fist. I would also be grateful for ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
Kinktoy 32 M
1  question
Would you fuck me? - 12/26/2013

Would you fuck me? Or at least suck on your musket I can't seem to get anybody to at least jerkoff over me.

10 response(s), 11 votes
sexstraved2 67 M
13  questions
fake frauds phonies outpersonals. - 11/12/2013

One question , you flirt, hot list, e-mail , then disappear when comes to meeting. Why? Don't want to hear from the regular responders to this cause most of you are so full of it, how's about some new people or just ones tired of all the crap some of you dish out.

3 response(s), 9 votes
ilovetoswallow 60 M
1  question
adultery - 10/14/2013

i want to know if it is considered adultery if a married man has sex with a man

6 response(s), 5 votes
baltdadbear 74 M
1  question
What is it like for Older Guys to Become Active? - 10/10/2013

Older guys, did any of you become active only after turning 50 or 60?
You have to admit in communications with potential partners that in all honesty you are relatively new to gay sexual activity and that you are far from experienced.
How easy was it for you to find suitable partners? You don't want to disappoint anyone. On the other hand, everyone was a beginner ...

10 response(s), 13 votes
donaldh 74 M
6  questions
Milking - 10/10/2013

What does it mean when your partner says that he wants to milk you.

3 response(s), 2 votes
Dan30 45 M
1  question
Deeper anal? - 10/3/2013

Hello all,

Any tips on "training" myself to be able to go deeper anally?

I am not having any difficulty with girth, but am hove problems with some guys length. I am not totally new at this, but feel a good deal of pain after 6-7"

All tips/advice appreciated!

11 response(s), 16 votes
hotass2ball 50 M
2  questions
Quality Sex - 10/1/2013

How many guys of a quality sex calibur are looking for a hot ass to fuck. Well I am looking for an energetic top........Any cummers?

0 response(s), 6 votes
hotass2ball 50 M
2  questions
Deep Throat - 9/22/2013

I enjoy my lovers cock in my throat, ,, ,, ,, ,, ,, any advice

3 response(s), 4 votes
wilec 57 M
8  questions
leave in or pull out - 9/2/2013

Just wondering if most dudes shoot their load with the cock still inside or pull it out and shoot it on their buddy.I am looking to try making it with a dude for my first time and was wondering what most guys do. I have watched a couple of gay flicks but of course they always pull out for the show.If you leave it in and shoot w/a rubber on, does the bottom get any sensation? I know that ...

7 response(s), 11 votes
DC_Boy_Scout 69 M
1  question
Any meeting spots in NW VA - 8/24/2013

Wondering if anyone knows of a spot to meet guys for m2m action in northwestern area of Virginia (near Winchester)?

1 response(s), 0 votes
geimy111 53 M
1  question
NES for fun - 8/23/2013

Let me ask you something is fun too, but is having sex in the bathroom with a partner you love strongly starts to take off his clothes and then START him with kisses and lick nipples and then go down to the cock and begin suck strongly and super fun and go down to the balls sucking greedily and then lick butt how this fun than approve hope to comment, and wants to add I'm OK, you absolute ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
manboybigcock 29 M
1  question
mu nam toni from belgium singel man old 26 skipe nam toni.mendes8 - 8/5/2013

im with sexy man hard spiren iam singel man live belgium

0 response(s), 1 vote
gbbeamer4242 64 M
1  question
ass - 8/1/2013

what is is like to have someone up your ass i have tried didos before but it hurts alot how do loosing my self you to enjoy the feeling

4 response(s), 6 votes